|Dreadful Drama by Ralph1841 - December 30th, 2016 01:41:01 AM|
|Where the hell do I start? Every second my sister comes around, all she wants to do is gossip from the time she comes over to the time she leaves, which is usually late in the evening. She bitches about her mother-in-law for doing the same shit she does herself. Her self-righteous attitude doesn't seem to reflect that at one point, she too was a full-blooded whore. The only known exception is that her mother-in-law has never shoplifted cheap shit from dollar stores. Here's the funny thing about all that, she wants to raise her children with morals. How can a thief preach against stealing, and how can a slut speak out against promiscuous behavior?
This is all I hear when she comes over. I have told her on numerous occasions that I am not interested in her dramatic newsfeed and would like to unsubscribe from this garbage. I have zero tolerance for gossip, rumor-mills, and however many forms of drama that I am overlooking. She holds herself on this pedestal of divinity, where she seems to be immune to all of her past shortcomings. She's not only an extroverted drama queen but also a hypocrite in every sense of the word. If I were to examine the world through her eyes, I would be on top of the world. At least that is what she likes to think.
Her attitude towards others is outright disrespectful. She takes advantage of those who have more than what she has. But she will never admit, or own up to any of this. She always seems to believe that she is somehow without fault. An example of when she took advantage of someone is when she called my father and asked for his help in buying an $800 wedding dress. Now before saying anything, she continually does this. She treats everyone like they should be charitable towards her.
For the record, she has had this dress for almost three years now and still hasn't gotten married. They keep changing the date, and to be honest, it seems a bit excessive. They must have changed the announced date at least 40-45 times now. She calls herself a 'rare breed of woman' but treats her fiance like shit. He has a full-time job and still has to do her share of household work. Even when he tries doing it just for the sake of being nice to her, she always finds fault in his efforts and constantly bitches at him for doing it incorrectly. As though she has some kind of procedure for washing dishes. Which she rarely ever does.
Speaking of, if I were to say her house looked like a dump, it would be a massive understatement. She never lifts a finger but expects money at the drop of a hat. Yet she continually believes that the world owes her some kind of favor simply by existing. This is a classic case of entitlement, where the infamous gold-digging mooch prevails over all things deemed necessary. The most outrageous thing that comes to mind as I write this, is that she sees no problem in the way she lives. Her house is a run-down 1980's single-wide trailer behind her fiance's parents house. The property itself looks a lot like a junkyard filled with an endless array of scrap metal and spare car parts.
But rather than put priorities first, they poorly invest in lavish things. They are more renown for their squandering than they are for budgeting to move out and get a place of their own. Never in my entire life have I ever been so disgusted with anyone, let alone a family member. But before I continue ranting and raving like a madman, allow me to provide an example of her hypocrisy. Our step-father had an unhealthy habit of excessive binge eating and had accumulated a morbid amount of weight. She has threatened to prevent her children from ever seeing him again (after all he has done for them) if he did not change his eating habits. On the other hand, her father-in-law has an out-of-control binge drinking problem and has no objection to allowing her children to spend time in the presence of a man who is constantly drunk from consuming (supposedly) 36 beers in a single day.
I am not in any way exaggerating the content of this story. This is exactly what my sister is like. I am on the verge of cutting her out of my life completely. I had once before but felt that she might be willing to change her ways, so I gave her a second chance. Obviously, I had been proven wrong through many instances of her overly-dramatic life. Supposing that I actually do stop talking to her altogether, I feel that my life will be at peace as I will no longer have to put up with the loathsome complaints in every episode of my sister's life. She is incapable of changing her behavior and attitude towards others, and I should not have to keep the door open waiting for a change that is never going to come.
Why should I have to subject myself to her outrageous nonsense? If I have the option to put an end to it, then I am going to act on it the very minute it becomes available. I have more important things to do with my time than listen to some tedious list of personal problems. If she has such a legitimate problem with the people she lives with, then why does she feel the need to complain to me and my family about it? I personally believe that she should be direct in voicing her problems by going straight to the very people she has a problem with. She should just scrap the whole self-righteous image, and be blunt with those she does not like. I do not, nor does anyone in my family need to be dragged down with her overly-dramatic bullshit.